How I Build a 3-Day Adventure Escape From Any City
Step by Step
Let’s get one thing clear: a 3-day escape should feel like a break, not a checklist. You’re not cramming in monuments. You’re exhaling and stretching your legs. But it has to be safe, queer-friendly, and worth the effort.
Here’s my thinking and how I’d build it, step by step.
1. Start with the “why”
Is this a soul-reset trip? A cheeky recharge? An anniversary? Or just a break from staring at the inbox? Knowing the mood helps shape everything, from pace to place.
A wild swimming escape looks different to a wine-soaked ramble through parts of Europe
2. Pick a hub with adventure access
I always start with a city or base that has:
Solid transport links (train or budget flights)
At least one good day trip that feels wild or offbeat
LGBTQ+ friendly vibe, and I don’t just mean gay bars, but general cultural openness
3. Safety, access and the vibe check
This is where the subtle art kicks in. Obviously, if I’m planning for potential clients, I’d vet every place. That means:
Checking local LGBTQ+ laws and safety reports
Scanning Airbnb/Booking reviews for microaggressions. Does it feel inclusive or not?
Cross-checking Google reviews for signs of hospitality, or red flags
Actually speaking to fellow LGBTQ+ contacts and partners for real life insights (especially if we’ve not been there before personally)
I create LGBTQ+ friendly, non-tour-package adventures for couples and small groups. If you’re tired of trying to figure it all out alone, just schedule a free chat with me
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I create LGBTQ+ friendly, non-tour-package adventures for couples and small groups. If you’re tired of trying to figure it all out alone, just schedule a free chat with me 〰️
4. Sketch the rhythm, not just the route
A good 3-day escape has rhythm. That usually means:
One high-energy adventure (like a hike, boat, or forest wander)
One cultural or sensory hit (local markets, galleries, hot springs, wine)
One slower moment — a long lunch, a spa hour, a lazy morning
Too much action = stress. Too little = regret.
I often start with the highlight and build around it. Think: “If that thing is the memory, what needs to come before and after to make it feel wonderful?”
5. Consider who it’s right for (and who it’s not)
Some places are stunning but tough to reach. Or require driving. Or have a local culture that’s tolerant rather than truly welcoming. That’s where I call it and I’ll often say “not ideal unless you're confident, or going as a group.”
My job is to make that clear, not sugar-coat it. 😬
Conclusion: That is how I build my 3-day escapes (with a few other bits and pieces).
When I find the perfect sunset view, or the train line that glides past rolling countryside while I’m sipping coffee with my other half - and it all feels safe, well, that’s how I roll.
Steve Morris
That’s a wrap on this week’s issue. If you’ve ever tried to DIY a trip and ended up overwhelmed by tabs, or second-guessing what’s actually safe, that’s exactly what I help with. Like this issue? Forward it to a travel-loving friend.
